Thursday, March 31, 2011
Castle Park- March 31
There is this fabulous park called Veterans Memorial Park that the kids Castle Park because there is a huge wooden castle play structure. The kids love it and always have so much fun there.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Issie= Love- March 23
Tenzing is in love with his "Issie" and will pretty much do anything for it, including walking to it. He loves to snuggle and play with it. I sure hope we never lose it.
Car love- March 23
Tenzing loves his cars and driving them all over the floors. (Love the wood floors!) He also plays and crawls at lightening speed so no blurry pics are sometimes hard to snag.
Monday, March 21, 2011
World Down Syndrome Awareness Day
Today is 3-21, World Down Syndrome Awareness Day. 3 meaning the number of the 21st chromosome.
Almost five years ago, Katya was born.
The whole time my wife was pregnant, we both thought there would be something not right with our child. We didn't know what it was, but we thought it was something. When the doctor told us it was Trisomy 21, my first thought was, "What is that?" But my second thought was, "Phew! At least we finally know!" We feel very blessed to have felt that something was not right. The Lord was looking out for us as it made coming to grips with that news much more bearable.
The last five years have been nothing but great for us. We do worry about things, but for the most part, Katya is just our daughter, and the fact that she has one extra chromosome just means there is a little bit more of her to love.
The first couple weeks when she was in the NICU were difficult, and we didn't know what the future would hold.
We quickly learned that Katya would bring happiness to us more than anything.
The above picture is one of my favorites. She is so peaceful sleeping. Just thinking about her brings peace to my heart. She doesn't judge anyone; she just loves everyone. It makes it very easy to fall in love with her every single day.
By her first birthday, we were very anxious for her to start developing. All she did at this time was sit up; she didn't really roll around, or move, she just sat there all day. It helped us be humble, and celebrate the little milestones when they did come. We were already pregnant with her younger sister, and we were sure that a little competition would be good for her.
Katya has shown us that although she will have troubles, she will be mostly normal like other kids. She'll make us laugh, make us cry, and she will want to learn. She has loved books for as long as we can remember and now that she is in preschool she is getting better at understanding the idea of reading a book. Each night when we read scriptures, she wants to read them with us, and points to words in the book and says what she thinks they mean. Being in education, I have felt great concern about her education. As I mentioned earlier, I have learned to be patient and allow her to develop at her own pace. I have learned that she will learn things in her own due time. She may be behind other kids, but she still can learn, just like any other kid.
Katya's happiness infects other people. Whenever we are out in public, people smile almost nonstop as soon as they see her. I joke with my wife that if she ever leaves me a widower, I'll have no trouble finding a wife as long as I take Katya out with me. She is a magnet for all kinds of people. Old women in Costco have asked to kiss her (awkward - the request was more of a notice--I could do nothing to stop it).
Katya is almost 5. She will start Kindergarten this year. She has spent the last two years learning all kinds of great things in preschool. I am nervous for how other students will treat her. I already notice it happening more and more now than ever before. People will be mean. People will be mean to all my kids. It is sad, but that is life. Katya teaches me that I can let it roll off my back, just like it rolls off her back.
I haven't thought for a long time what it would be like if she were normal, because to us, she is normal. She is our first kid, and we didn't know any different for a long time. Now that we do, we are amazed at how unique each of our kids are. They have their own personalities.
Every so often, an adult gets brave and asks what they should tell their kids when they ask why Katya is different. I find it easiest to relate it to themselves. Think of how you have one color hair and someone else has another color hair. Think of how peoples' eye colors are different. Think of how one person is very tall, and another is very short. Think of how some people are very athletic, while others may be very smart, or very whatever. What makes Katya different is what makes her unique, just like every other person in the world.
Right now, most people can't understand what she says. Someday, they will. Right now, she can't jump very well. Someday, she will. I pray that I will still be lucky enough to share those momentous occasions with her.
Almost five years ago, Katya was born.
The whole time my wife was pregnant, we both thought there would be something not right with our child. We didn't know what it was, but we thought it was something. When the doctor told us it was Trisomy 21, my first thought was, "What is that?" But my second thought was, "Phew! At least we finally know!" We feel very blessed to have felt that something was not right. The Lord was looking out for us as it made coming to grips with that news much more bearable.
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| In the NICU at about 2 days old |
The first couple weeks when she was in the NICU were difficult, and we didn't know what the future would hold.
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| She still loves chilling with Dad |
We quickly learned that Katya would bring happiness to us more than anything.
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| Precious |
The above picture is one of my favorites. She is so peaceful sleeping. Just thinking about her brings peace to my heart. She doesn't judge anyone; she just loves everyone. It makes it very easy to fall in love with her every single day.
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| Happy 1st Birthday |
By her first birthday, we were very anxious for her to start developing. All she did at this time was sit up; she didn't really roll around, or move, she just sat there all day. It helped us be humble, and celebrate the little milestones when they did come. We were already pregnant with her younger sister, and we were sure that a little competition would be good for her.
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| Notice the thumb |
Katya has shown us that although she will have troubles, she will be mostly normal like other kids. She'll make us laugh, make us cry, and she will want to learn. She has loved books for as long as we can remember and now that she is in preschool she is getting better at understanding the idea of reading a book. Each night when we read scriptures, she wants to read them with us, and points to words in the book and says what she thinks they mean. Being in education, I have felt great concern about her education. As I mentioned earlier, I have learned to be patient and allow her to develop at her own pace. I have learned that she will learn things in her own due time. She may be behind other kids, but she still can learn, just like any other kid.
Katya's happiness infects other people. Whenever we are out in public, people smile almost nonstop as soon as they see her. I joke with my wife that if she ever leaves me a widower, I'll have no trouble finding a wife as long as I take Katya out with me. She is a magnet for all kinds of people. Old women in Costco have asked to kiss her (awkward - the request was more of a notice--I could do nothing to stop it).
Katya is almost 5. She will start Kindergarten this year. She has spent the last two years learning all kinds of great things in preschool. I am nervous for how other students will treat her. I already notice it happening more and more now than ever before. People will be mean. People will be mean to all my kids. It is sad, but that is life. Katya teaches me that I can let it roll off my back, just like it rolls off her back.
I haven't thought for a long time what it would be like if she were normal, because to us, she is normal. She is our first kid, and we didn't know any different for a long time. Now that we do, we are amazed at how unique each of our kids are. They have their own personalities.
Every so often, an adult gets brave and asks what they should tell their kids when they ask why Katya is different. I find it easiest to relate it to themselves. Think of how you have one color hair and someone else has another color hair. Think of how peoples' eye colors are different. Think of how one person is very tall, and another is very short. Think of how some people are very athletic, while others may be very smart, or very whatever. What makes Katya different is what makes her unique, just like every other person in the world.
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| Dance Class, in March 2011 |
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Haven't Forgotten
You may think that with the lack of frequent posts I have forgotten about the blog. Don't worry, I think about it everyday. My lack of posts has nothing to do with our fourth baby due in September, but rather the 3 little kids who won't let me stand at the computer all day and edit pictures and write blog posts. I've got all the way from January to catch up so there will be plenty to read about when I get them done.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Trip to Pocatello and Parent's visit- March 12-14
We took a trip up to Pocatello for my neice Holly's baby blessing. My parents flew into town and took the girls with them to Pocatello on Thursday. I picked Megan up from Provo on Friday and we headed up to Pocatello on Saturday. After a pizza dinner at my sister's, we went back to the hotel and took the kids swimming. Girls loved it, Tenzing hated it. He did stop crying after awhile and got a little more used to it. It was a beautiful blessing on Sunday and a fun post-blessing lunch on Sunday. My parents brought the girls back down (because they love riding with grandma and grandpa!) so we just had Mr. T. Pretty easy trip I'd say. :) It's always fun to see family and get the cousins together, and this was no exception.
Absolutely terrified!
Looking for sympathy from Grandpa.
Katya loved it!
Cali trying to cheer up Mr. T
Happy, finally
The family.
Playing Ms. Mary Mack with Grandma and Susan
Tenzing chatting it up with Grandpa
Grandpa teaching Tenzing to comb his hair. Now he does it all the time.
Absolutely terrified!
Looking for sympathy from Grandpa.
Katya loved it!
Cali trying to cheer up Mr. T
Happy, finally
The family.
Playing Ms. Mary Mack with Grandma and Susan
Tenzing chatting it up with Grandpa
Grandpa teaching Tenzing to comb his hair. Now he does it all the time.Monday, March 14, 2011
Trip to Pocatello
We took a little trip up to Pocatello's for Staci's niece's blessing. Here is some video of the kids. I didn't get much, but some is better than none, right grandparents?
Since we haven't updated in a while, Tenzing learned how to crawl down stairs when we opened the door one day on our back porch, and he took off. No fear on the concrete steps; he just wanted to be outside!
Since we haven't updated in a while, Tenzing learned how to crawl down stairs when we opened the door one day on our back porch, and he took off. No fear on the concrete steps; he just wanted to be outside!
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Who doesn't love big bananas?- March 8
Costco always has huge bananas and the kids love them. Tenzing especially loves to eat them whole.
Saturday, March 5, 2011
Hiding Place- March 5
This kitchen cabinet is Tenzing's favorite place to play and hide. I cleaned it out just for him. Anytime I am working in the kitchen, he'll play or hide in there.
Friday, March 4, 2011
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